Becoming

Becoming

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An intimate, powerful, and inspiring memoir by the former First Lady of the United States.
Publisher: New York : Crown, 2018.
Edition: 1st ed.
ISBN: 9781524763138
Characteristics: 426 p. : ill. (chiefly col.) ; 25 cm.

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KaedonC
Aug 07, 2020

Becoming is a Nonfiction book by Michelle Obama about her childhood all the way until her time in the white house. I was surprised that MIchelle met Barack Obama working at a law firm called Sidley Austin. What I found inspiring is that Michelle Obama grew up in the south side of chicago, known to have high crime rates. She then went from the southside of chicago and went all the way to Harvard; a very prestigious law school. I enjoyed this book and would recommend this book to middle schoolers interested in Michelle Obama's life. I found this story inspiring as I want to get into law when I grow up. I feel a new sense of respect towards the Obama's

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corinnamayer72
Jul 31, 2020

A memorable read worthy of sharing and discussion. The words of Mrs. Obama are especially relevant and meaningful in this election year!

IndyPL_DeborahM Jul 20, 2020

This is a thought provoking book. It is very inspirational, detailed, and personal with an insightful view of Ms. Obama's life as First Lady plus life in the White House. It is a must read.

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ValinOR14
Jul 16, 2020

I'm so happy to have read Becoming. I loved every moment of it, at times feeling very emotional and at others laughing out loud! There was so much I didn't know, like Michelle deciding she would NEVER be interested in Barack romantically when he lit that first cigarette! And then Barack's belief that marriage was pretty much unnecessary - leading right up to the moment of his hilarious (yet romantic) proposal. I loved reading about how Michelle and Barack balanced each other out: the meticulous, punctual planner and Mr. Laid Back.

I wish I could wave a magic wand and bring them back to the White House. They did so much good for this country as they strived to unite the Red and the Blue. What Michelle Obama did for children is something I will never forget. And what President Obama managed to accomplish, even though he was fought every step of the way by the Republicans, was truly inspiring. There were so many positives, which are now being undone just because President Barack was the one who accomplished them. There were parts that made me very angry, like when I read about Mitch McConnell vowing to do everything in his power to make sure Barack was a one-term president. It boggles my mind. Where does that hatred come from??

Michelle Obama's mantra is "You belong. You matter. I think highly of you," and I love that so much. That made it even more difficult for her to hear Trump vowing to build a wall to keep the Mexican "rapists" out of the USA.

Like President Obama says: "You may live in the world as it is, but you can still work to create the world as is should be." Wildly different from Mr. "I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab ’em by the pussy. You can do anything."

Ending on a positive note, the background involving living in the White House was utterly fascinating and sometimes funny. (Who knew the president and first family had to pay for their own food ... and TP?)

I highly, highly recommend this book to one and all!

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jvelez_0
Jul 08, 2020

Conversational in both tone and content, Michelle Obama's Becoming is a memoir that was mesmerizing, heartbreaking, and highly informative; it was a read that delved deep into the former first lady's life. I really loved hearing her thoughts and reflections on key events in her life. Mrs. Obama exudes a wisdom so seldom seen. I listened to the audiobook and I was struck by how easily I was absorbed by her voice and how captivating she can make her life stories. I especially loved how she recounted her courtship with Mr. Obama, namely her highly unusual proposal. I also thought it did a great job of illuminating her inner most private thoughts during one of the most impactful presidencies our country has ever experienced.

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rsmunoz
Jul 05, 2020

Down-to-earth, dedicated, passionate, driven--this is my takeaway after reading Michelle Obama's autobiography. She's a humanitarian at heart, and I'm blown away by how easily and naturally she advocates for others; this is her way of making the world a better place. I loved especially the peeks into her relationship with her husband (oh, that marriage proposal!), her girls, and her inner circle. An eye-opening and human view into her life. I'm so very glad to have read her story. She makes me feel like I can and should do more. 4.5 stars

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AMWayment
Jun 22, 2020

Michelle recounts her time growing up on the South Side of Chicago as she shares the joys of her childhood as well as some of the tough things. She was a feisty child, driven to do well in school.
She speaks lovingly of her roots in this working class family - her parents and her brother and grandparents and how their values shaped the adult she would become. We witness the grief she experienced over the loss of her father and her continuing admiration and love for her mother who was tenacious in seeking a good education for her children. In this memoir, she is so open and honest and it feels so intimate. Michelle shares her love for her husband and daughters. She speaks about the discrimination against the men in her family, about being black at Princeton, about the attacks on her husband’s citizenship, a conspiracy theory primary pushed by the person who unfortunately followed Obama after his second term. We discover who she is in the times she is undergoing a self discovery, as she questions her aspirations, as she juggles work and motherhood as Barack’s involvement and aspirations in politics grow. It felt so intimate as she shares some personal struggles that they faced.

The things she chose to focus on as First Lady - children and their health, assisting military families, developing a program for mentoring young women reflect the things that are important to her and the kind of person she is. With an intellect such as hers, she easily could have taken on larger policy issues, but instead focused on children and families bringing people into the White House who would not have had the opportunity to be there if not for her. This book is over 400 pages and it never felt long. The writing is good and I just kept turning page after page always interested in what she would say next. A remarkable story of a remarkable woman.

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jaimedboyd
Jun 12, 2020

awesome book! she is such an amazing woman!

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catw2ooo
May 25, 2020

Yep, totally superficial. Feel sorry for me is the message I got through and through. Awww she's had such a hard life. Poor baby.

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stevania_k
May 23, 2020

Such a person like president of the USA and the first lady will always be an interesting topic for a book. The way the book is written is smart, felt sincere and enjoyable to read, like the historical genre adopting popular genre - dense yet light.

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result.” - p. 43

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?” - p. 118

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.” - p. 419

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

Many quotes in goodreads already, likely includes many below:

I’ve wanted to ask my detractors which part of that phrase matters to them the most — is it “angry” or “black” or “woman”?
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Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.
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Everything that mattered was within a five-block radius — my grandparents and cousins, the church on the corner where we were not quite regulars at Sunday school, the gas station where my mother sometimes sent me to pick up a pack of Newport’s, and the liquor store, which also sold Wonder bread, penny candy, and gallons of milk.
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Robbie and Terry were older. They grew up in a different era, with different concerns. They’d seen things our parents hadn’t — things that Craig and I, in our raucous childishness, couldn’t begin to guess.
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He was devoted to his car, a bronze - colored two - door Buick Electra 225, which he referred to with pride as “the Deuce and a Quarter.”

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

If you’d had a head start at home, you were rewarded for it at school, deemed “bright” or “gifted,” which in turn only compounded your confidence. The advantages aggregated quickly.
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Kids found one another based not on the color of their skin but on who was outside and ready to play.
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In 1950, fifteen years before my parents moved to South Shore, the neighborhood had been 96 percent white. By the time I’d leave for college in 1981, it would be about 96 percent black.
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If my mother were somebody different, she might have done the polite thing and said, “Just go and do your best.” But she knew the difference. She knew the difference between whining and actual distress.
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Their anger over it can manifest itself as unruliness. It’s hardly their fault. They aren’t “bad kids.” They’re just trying to survive bad circumstances

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

For the next nine years, knowing that I’d earned it, I made myself a fat peanut butter and jelly sandwich for breakfast each morning and consumed not a single egg.
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My grandfather, born in 1912, was the grandson of slaves, the son of a millworker, and the oldest of what would be ten children in his family. A quick-witted and intelligent kid, he’d been nicknamed “the Professor” and set his sights early on the idea of someday going to college. But not only was he black and from a poor family, he also came of age during the Great Depression.
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If you wanted to work as an electrician (or as a steelworker, carpenter, or plumber, for that matter) on any of the big job sites in Chicago, you needed a union card. And if you were black, the overwhelming odds were that you weren’t going …
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Speaking a certain way — the “white” way, as some would have it — was perceived as a betrayal, as being uppity, as somehow denying our culture.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.
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I tore through the lessons, quietly keeping tabs on where I stood among my peers as we charted our progress from long division to pre-algebra, from writing single paragraphs to turning in full research papers. For me, it was like a game. And as with any game, like most any kid, I was happiest when I was ahead.
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Advice, when she offered it, tended to be of the hard-boiled and pragmatic variety. “You don’t have to like your teacher,” she told me one day after I came home spewing complaints. “But that woman’s got the kind of math in her head that you need in yours. Focus on that and ignore the rest. ”
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Her goal was to push us out into the world. “I’m not raising babies,” she’d tell us. “I’m raising adults.”
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We weren’t going to “hang out” or “take a walk.” We were going to make out. And we were both all for it.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

I was caught up in the lonely thrill of being a teenager now, convinced that the adults around me had never been there themselves.
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Was she picturing herself on a tropical island somewhere? With a different kind of man, or in a different kind of house, or with a corner office instead of kids? I don’t know, and I suppose I could ask my mother, who is now in her eighties, but I don’t think it matters.
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If you’ve never passed a winter in Chicago, let me describe it: You can live for a hundred straight days beneath an iron-gray sky that claps itself like a lid over the city. Frigid, biting winds blow in off the lake. Snow falls in dozens of ways, in heavy overnight dumps and daytime, sideways squalls, in demoralizing sloppy sleet and fairy-tale billows of fluff. There’s ice, usually, lots of it, that shellacs the sidewalks and windshields that then need to be scrapped.
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I hadn’t needed to show her anything. I was only showing myself.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

I hoped that someday my feelings for a man would knock me sideways, that I’d get swept into the upending, tsunami-like rush that seemed to power all the best love stories.
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I’d been raised on the bedrock of football, basketball, and baseball, but it turned out that East Coast prep schoolers did more. Lacrosse was a thing. Field hockey was a thing. Squash, even, was a thing. For a kid from the South Side, it could be a little dizzying. “You row crew?” What does that even mean?
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It was hardly a straight meritocracy. There were the athletes, for example. There were the legacy kids, whose fathers and grandfathers had been Tigers or whose families had funded the building of a dorm or a library.
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If in high school I’d felt as if I were representing my neighborhood, now at Princeton I was representing my race.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

In my experience, you put a suit on any half-intelligent black man and white people tended to go bonkers.
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To me, he was sort of like a unicorn — unusual to the point of seeming almost unreal.
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Compared with my own lockstep march toward success, the direct arrow shot of my trajectory from Princeton to Harvard to my desk on the forty-seventh floor, Barack’s path was an improvisational zigzag through disparate worlds.
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He was in law school, he explained, because grassroots organizing had shown him that meaningful societal change required not just the work of the people on the ground but stronger policies and governmental action as well.
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There was no arguing with the fact that even with his challenged sense of style, Barack was a catch. He was good-looking, poised, and successful. He was athletic, interesting, and kind. What more could anyone want? I sailed into the bar, certain I was doing everyone a favor — him and all the ladies

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